TOP 20 SIGNS HE IS CHEATING

When it comes to cheating, Gay Men are king. Gay Men cheat at cards, Gay cheat on their taxes, and far too often, Gay Men cheat on their partners. According to the Ashley Madison Agency, approximately 50% to 60% of men will engage in an extramarital tryst at some point in their lives.

The reasons are myriad, but the tell-tale signs of propensity for infidelity are typically the same. Gain insight into your own potential cheating heart by reading the top 10 signs you're about to have an affair.

1. Long, irrational excuses for absences usually littered with tedious, unnecessary details.

2. Noticeable change of behavior in your partner when around that certain person.

3. Frequent mentioning of his name. Example: "Well Mike says …" and "Mike thinks…" and "The way Mike explained it….."

4. Definite lack of passion. Example. "I'm tired tonight." or "We just did it a month ago."

5. Sudden need to hang out with "friends, Family" at night and on weekends.

6. Sudden job related out-of-town trips, late night meetings.

7. Long unexplained absences when out together at social functions.

8. Introduction of new sexual techniques which seem very familiar to your partner, but completely uncharacteristic of your shared sexual experiences.

9. The wearing of new jewelry or clothing that your partner would never buy for himself and you didn't buy it for them.

10. Excessive primping or grooming for "routine" outings.

11. Your sudden and frequent attendance at social events alone.

12. Catching your lover in little lies.

13. Hiding his cell phone and keeping it on silent.

14. Friends asking about His absence at social events your lover attended but you didn't know about.

15. Excessive denial by your partner about something being wrong in your relationship. For ex. "If you need to go to couples therapy, go alone. There's nothing wrong with me."

16. Erratic mood swings Ex. One minute it's "I love you" and the next it's "Leave me alone…I need my space."

17. Demonstrated disinterest in just about everything you do or say. Your partner is emotional detached.

18. She's working late more often, although no one answers when you call the office.

19. Your partner's immediate showering, brushing teeth or changing clothes upon entering the house

20. Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays seem like obligatory time together or seem like a chore

If you are suspicious of a cheating mate use this as your reference!